Monday is the best day

Tomorrow is a big day for me. I have alot going on. I have to take this test to see my skills and abilities which I know I am good at but I hate tests lol. I love schooling but hate tests. Then my hubby and I have decided to just drive somewhere and go walking. Maybe the beach or maybe up in the mountains. My daughter would love that. Since it is going to be such a beautiful day I figure why not go out and enjoy it. Then I am making a nummy chicken catchatori for dinner. Of course a movie and snuggle up with the Hun after. After working an 11 hour shift on Saturday then going to see Colette that night to going in today and working another 8 hours I'm tired. Need me a little break to relax and spend time with my loves. Colette was awesome but being in Modesto to see it sucked. GOD people are scummy in this area. The club was super small too so I was right in front of her dancing which rocked. The website is gonna have ALOT of photos of me and the man dancing hehe. Cannot wait to check them out.

So we decided march 14Th we are going to go look for our new home :) I could not be more excited. No more nasty valley. No more nasty people. I mean sure there are rude people everywhere but this area is full of scrummy people everywhere that take no pride in themselves and how they look. An inside joke with me and my cousin is if every you wake up feeling you look like crap go to the walmart in Stockton for an immediate confidence boost haha. I just cannot believe how people allow themselves to be seen looking like they just got rolled in the dumpster in the parking lot and walked in. I am so glad I take time to make myself look nice. Vanity is not bad at all you love yourself and love to look good for others. I am proud to say I am no walmart dresser. Food and hygiene stuff sure but clothing no f-ing way. Cannot wait to go shopping where we move I'm going to be in love its a shoppers heaven!

Excited for events coming up

So Saturday my hubby got off the night and we are going to see Colette! I am so excited. She was so awesome New Years Eve that when I heard she was coming back this way I had to go see her. I cannot believe she is coming to this area though. I don't have to drive to the bay to see her that is definitely a plus. We wont be drinking but a whole lot of dancing will be going on. Then in April Tiesto is coming back and we already bought our tickets. He is my absolute Favorite. This show will be much smaller and more intimate. The cow palace show was huge. I am hoping for a picture with him this time. I know I will be right next to him because the club is not the size of cow palace. Just another reason I love my man. He did not even know who tiesto was but he went with me anyways and loved it. Now he wants to go just as bad as I do hehe. We love dancing together. Then we get a night out alone about once every other month which is nice. We are not like some parents that go out every weekend and leave our children while we go drink and party. We would much rather be snuggling up by the fire watching a movie and going out for special occasions. Our life revolves around family first. I love my family so much

Another fine day at work

Today was so rewarding at my job. I was told "Thank you for everything you do and we don't know what we would do without you" This is why I chose this profession. Knowing that you help someone get through life is such an honor. I know I am going to miss this. I get attached so easily. As much as I dislike living where I am there are a few, yes a few people I will miss. My mother in law and father to start. My cuzzy Jenny which is about to have a baby which I wont be able to see much. My BFF and her family and a few select friends. All of them except my mother in law are so happy for us. She is mad we are moving and also having another baby she will not be able to spoil to death like my princess. She loves her grand baby and my princess will miss her grandma too that is for sure. But it is time to do what is best for our family.
Sometimes I wish we never came back. Although the area we moved to before was not a place to raise kids, it was definitely not as much drama as here. There were nice areas to live there where it was not scary to go walk alone. There is not one safe area here. I have friends telling me about bad stuff that happens in their neighborhood all the time. If I go on a trip and someone asks me where I am from I am embarrassed to say. I get told wow wasn't the place with the highest crime rate one year. How can a place with less people than San Francisco have such a crowd so undesirable? The schools here are horrid. Kids are learning nothing. They hire anyone now days with no experience and let them attempt to teach. I am so sending my daughter to private school. Public schools are not what they used to be. Who am I kidding they were bad when I was young and now even worse. I feel so blessed to have the opportunity to move and take my family to somewhere I can be proud to say I am from. June cannot come fast enough.............

So the day one began with us heading out at about 12pm. When we got there we did some shopping hehe so spoiled. Next we got to our room that was beautifully Tuscan themed with some flowers for me on the table :) How did I get so lucky with such a romantic and gorgeous man? Dinner for night one was at Olive Garden and I love their Steak Gorgonzola Pasta so tasty. Time for some drinks and hanging out with my lovie.
Day two began at 11am since we never get to sleep in that was nice. Down to the 3 story spa we go. We check in and get our plush robes and slippers to walk around in. The girls locker room had a steam room, sauna, hot and cold plunges and vanities with everything imaginable for a woman. My love and I meet on the third floor where they have a pool with a giant fountain heated to a lovely 85 degrees. Then some spa time. Now we hang out in some massage chairs eating fruit sipping champagne and water :) About 1pm they come get us for our treatments. First a couples massage and then facials which felt beautiful. Then I decided to get a salt scrub to make my skin soft and luminous and we both got pedicures. Back to the third floor to take a shower together in a shower called a cascade shower that sprays you from everywhere lol. What an awesome experience. Back to the room for some alone time ;)
Now it was time to get dressed up and go out to the place he proposed to me 5 years ago. Where I had the best fillet Mignon and asparagus. The food there is always awesome. I cannot believe its been five years since he got down on one knee in the same place in front of all those people. When we move away I am going to miss that place so much it will be so far. O well the price you pay to move away from the ghetto.
Day 3 time to come home and we had a blast but I did miss my princess. When we got home she was so happy to see us and we were happy to see her. She said you guys never leave me again HAHA. First time being away more than one night and she was all bent out of shape. Well since we are moving in June there wont be a sitter near by so she wont have to worry about it.

lets get it on :0

And I am off to enjoy my anniversary with my love :) More to come......

Just fabulous

Last night I had a wonderful evening with my cousins and my brother. Madison played so well with their kids while we sat and talked of times passed. I had a blast and love them all so very much. It has been nice having them all around more along with my brother. He has really got some good goals for himself now and I know he will get there. I did not start school til I was 26 years old so you can start at any time. I also took a break for a baby and to raise her for a year so life ends up for the best eventually. You have to have the ambition it does not matter how long it takes as long as you get there. Family comes first and career second and now that I have both going perfectly I feel fabulous.

I have been trying to be cool with everyone and stop the anger except for two people that I know will always be just plain nasty. I have made up with everyone else and it feels good to know that people can make up so easily when the genuine efforts are made. I missed one of the people I made up with alot :) Well there was only two people I felt I needed to make ammends with anyway so I did. The other two can just keep being a bunch of pathetic nags together I never needed either of them in my life and wish I never knew either one of them. But you cant pick and choose who you meet in life. You can just choose who you keep in your life and I know I made the right decision to just stop trying with both of them. I was warned but had to learn for myself just as we all do. Live and you learn.

One more day and me and my baby are off for our anniversary. I cannot wait to take lots of pictures. While I was looking online at my hearts on fire ring information I found the next half of it we will be getting next year for our 5 year anniversary. It is absolutely gorgeous. This will make my flawless ring almost 3 carats and if you have seen a hearts on fire ring you know they are the best diamonds you can get around here. All it takes is some research and you can find the best. :) Todd did a beautiful job picking mine. It is so unique and not plain and just some little solitare. He has good taste but I already knew that :) So a 5 year anniversary band and kauai all at the same time priceless. Soon it will be time for my cadillac SRX. I love that car and so does he. I am such a spoiled wife and mama and I love every minute of it. I will be bragging about my beautiful life til I am dead and gone. Because every year it just keeps getting better and better.

More to be happy about :-)

So today I had a fabulous lunch with my preggie girl Natasha. She looks so adorable and I cannot wait to meet her lil girl. I was telling her today me and my lovie are ready to start for number two. Madison will be such a wonderful little helper. She tells me she wants a little sister all the time but I told her she cannot choose haha. She is so affectionate and caring that I know she will help me out so much. Another reason why I waited is that I want some time between the two so one could be in preschool so I could focus time on my second. After that we are done. Two is perfect. So it begins hehe. Keep watching for that positive test. Now that I have began my career we decided let's do it! We have the money and by the time I have the baby we will be far from here so that works out perfect. June is moving month. It is finally set in stone. I am so glad to be getting out of this horrible town. I am also so happy about where I am moving to. People will want to come visit all the time. Prime location for fun :) I always wanted to move to this area but never thought I would be able to afford it or have someone so willing to leave here. He wants out of here more than I do believe it or not lmao.
This coming up Monday we leave for our anniversary. We have never had a couples massage before so it will be interesting. The spa is three stories of rest and relaxation. We are going to spend the whole day getting pampered. Then dinner at our beautiful steakhouse where he proposed 5 years ago. I admit that I am spoiled and love it :) Thank you to the grandparents for watching our lil princess for some much needed time alone. Four years married and going on six together. Wow how time flies when you are in love. I am such a lucky woman to have found him when I did. There was a time in my life when I was sad and filled with many regrets. Now life is filled with love and happiness.